Absentminded Mother seeks camping advice...

When Daddy left I promised the boys a trip to Okuma in his absence. Okuma is a military resort up in the northern part of the island with beautiful beaches and a few other kid friendly activities.
Silly me thought a trip half way around the world might be a sweeter deal and supersede any aforementioned camping trip.
What camping? I said we would go camping!? I don't remember that?
Yeah right, my kid that even likes to remind me when he is suppose to be grounded and I tell him to go outside and play. I am not a good mother and I throw out punishments that never stick. Keegan hits Braden..KEEGAN YOU ARE GROUNDED FOR THE REST OF THE DAY!!!! DO NOT GET OFF THE COUCH!!! 15 minutes later, when scatter brained Mom has totaly forgotten the assult, I tell him to go play with his friends outside,
and the kid reminds me he is grounded.
What kid does that? I guess the same one who just yesterday reminded me we only have about 3 weeks left to go camping.
So, here we go.
From you I need advice, tips, lists, someone help me. I have never been camping without Daddy, the camping master who magically makes camping trips happen.